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>Be aware that sexuality is complex and fluid

>Nevertheless become aware that am like 95% gay

>Split up with man for pretty much exactly that reason, cannot stand men any longer, deeply physically repulsed (do not actually say that to man's face, am not monster)

>Promptly develop massive crushes on two people who are not women and make plans to hook up with a third (two hes and a they)

>What the hell?

Ok, in fairness I'm kinda using the hookup as a litmus test as he's an ex-lover and we've always had chemistry, and I've kissed the genderqueer person before they came out, but still. What's worse, being a lesbian with a crush on a trans man makes me feel really, really guilty, as it could be invalidating and very disrespectful. I'd never want to make him -or indeed any of them -uncomfortable.

Oh well. Back to using "queer" to mean "throws hands in the air and runs away wailing "I don't knowwwwww life is haaaaard people are people whateverrrrr". " It'll work out.

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